Happy Happens

I think one of my biggest flaws in my independence. Yet, it is one of my biggest strengths.

Confusing, I know. It is a contradicting concept for me too.

I have this notion embedded in my brain--somewhere deep down and hard to find--that doing things on my own terms is the most beneficial way to approach things. And yes, I am that girl that just silently takes on the responsibility to do everything on my own in a group project. But, I mean, is that really okay?

Is it okay to assert my independence to the point where I completely shun any assistance at all?

Independent woman = cool beans. Independence dependent woman = not so cool beans.

Does that make any sense at all?

I have become so dependent on my independence that I essentially lack any room to let other people in.

My dependence on maintaining my independence is something that I have recently become painfully aware of, and it is something that I am longing to change.

I don't want to be THAT girl that can't ask for help. I don't want to be THAT girl that can't appreciate the assistance offered by the people I am closest too. And I most certainly don't want to be THAT girl that offends other people with my independence.

Alright, Taylor. Let's work on this. Starting now.